Tom Violet always thought that by the time he turned thirty-five, he’d have everything going for him. Fame. Fortune. A beautiful wife. A satisfying career as a successful novelist. A happy dog to greet him at the end of the day.

The reality, though, is far different. He’s got a wife, but their problems are bigger than he can even imagine. And he’s written a novel, but the manuscript he’s slaved over for years is currently hidden in his desk drawer while his father, an actual famous writer, just won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction. His career, such that it is, involves mind-numbing corporate buzzwords, his pretentious archnemesis Gregory, and a hopeless, completely inappropriate crush on his favorite coworker. Oh . . . and his dog, according to the vet, is suffering from acute anxiety.

Tom’s life is crushing his soul, but he’s decided to do something about it. (Really.) Domestic Violets is the brilliant and beguiling story of a man finally taking control of his own happiness—even if it means making a complete idiot of himself along the way.

2. Throughout the book, Tom spends a lot of time talking about the trappings of being the son of a famous writer. Ultimately though, has having Curtis as a father helped or hindered him? How so? 
3. Tom’s mom, Maryanne, says, “A family can only support one writer. It’s as simple as that?” What does she mean by this? Is she right? 
4. Technically speaking, the Violets are a broken family. But are they ultimately a loving one? Discuss Curtis and Maryanne. They never appear together in the novel, but their relationship is crucial to its resolution. What’s your reaction to this? 
5. Discuss the role of parenting in the book. Which characters are “good” and “bad” parents? 
6. There are many pop culture references in Domestic Violets. What do they reveal about the characters in the book? 
7. The concept of a “work spouse” is a fairly new phenomenon in offices today. Are they healthy? Are they ever truly “innocent?” 
8. Discuss Tom’s feelings for Katie. Are they genuine, or does she simply represent something that Tom knows he’ll never have again? How does this compare to Curtis’ feelings for the many women in his life? 
9. Domestic Violets takes aim at Corporate America, the publishing industry, and, to a lesser extent, academia. Which of the three comes off worse in the novel? And, is the author’s criticism fair? 
10. Tom’s arch nemesis, Gregory, is a constant source of angst in Tom’s life. Does Gregory really hate Tom as much as Tom thinks he does? Have you ever had a nemesis—real or imagined? 
11. There are a lot of secrets in Tom and Anna’s relationship, and even in the end, much is left unsaid. How do these secrets affect Tom and Anna’s marriage, and how do secrets affect relationships in general? How much do you think Anna knows about Katie? 
12. What’s your reaction to the end of the story? Is it believable? Is it satisfying? If you were Tom, would you have done what he did? What if you were Curtis?

This book is on these lists:

• April 2012 Indie Next List
• March 2012 Indie Next List
• February 2012 Indie Next List