First Comes Love

First Comes Love

By Marion Winik

Vintage Books, Paperback, 9780679765554, 272pp.

Publication Date: August 14, 1998


A "New York Times" Notable Book of the Year
When Marion Winik fell in love with Tony Heubach during a wild Mardi Gras in New Orleans, her friends shook their heads. For starters, she was straight and he was gay. But Marion and Tony's impossible love turned out to be true enough to produce a marriage and two beautiful sons, true enough to weather drug addiction, sexual betrayal, and the AIDS that would kill Tony at the age of thirty-seven, twelve years after they met.
In a memoir heartbreaking and hilarious by turns, Marion Winik tells a story that is all more powerful for the way in which it defies easy judgments. As it charts the trajectory of a marriage so impossible that it became inevitable, "First Comes Love" reminds us poignantly indelibly that every story is a special case.

About the Author
Marion Winik is a longtime contributor to National Public Radio's "All Things Considered" and the author of "Telling, First Comes Love, " and "The Lunch-Box Chronicles." She lives in Pennsylvania with her husband and their children.

Praise For First Comes Love

"Gritty, funny, moving, horrific, outrageous—and, above all, fearlessly honest... ultimately a joyous story."-Newsday

Decidedly unfaint-hearted... Marion Winik is resilient, hardy, unfazable; this self-described suburban wannabe is a frontier woman in disguise."- The New York Times Book Review

"A true story stripped of fine writing or cheap analysis.... I won't be the only reader who can't put it down."- San Francisco Chronicle

"Beautiful... intense and intimate."- Washington Post Book World