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m the acclaimed author of "Julia's Chocolates" and "The Last Time I Was Me" comes Lamb's most heartwarming novel to date, as three sisters reunite during a family crisis.

2. How did Isabelle change from the beginning of the book to the end? Cecilia? Janie? What do you think is in the future for each of the sisters?

3. Describe River Bommarito. Do you like her? River made many difficult decisions when the sisters and Henry were growing up. Was River backed into a corner, or were there different decisions she could have made? What would you have done? Is it judgmental to say that we would not have made the same decisions as she did if we were in her shoes?

4. What kind of a man is Carl Bommarito? Do you agree with his decision to stay away from the family? Would you have been able to forgive your husband if he left for thirty years, given the same circumstances, as River did? Would you have been able to forgive your father for an absence of that length?

5. Henry said, "You good sisters. We laugh. We cry. We play. We work at bakery and have spaghetti with stringy cheese. Happy life." Did Henry have a happy life? What made him happy? What could all of us learn from Henry?

6. What role did Father Mike play in this book? How did his words help Isabelle recover from who she used to be? Would you describe Isabelle as religious?

7. Velvet Eddow said, "Men are easily baffled, though, darlin', don't ever forget that. Their brains think like porn. That's the only way I can describe it, darlin', like porn. . . . One part of their brain thinks, the other part is holding a breast in his hand, at all times." True? Not true?

8. Isabelle said, "You get help for a mental illness? People start to steer clear. They are blockheaded, insensitive, narrow-minded morons who will never get past their own flaming ignorance, but they peg you in a hole, treat you with annoying kid gloves, condescension, and/or like they think you're a weak, perhaps dangerous, eternally sick whack job, unsafe or unhealthy to be around. It's beyond their minuscule minds to accept that people with mental illnesses get better all the time. All the time." Discuss this statement. Is it true? What specific events do you feel most helped Isabelle in her battle against depression?

9. Parker, Cecilia's cheating, mean, ex-husband, loses everything by the end of the book: his wife and kids, his beautiful home, his job, and his new wife. He acquires massive credit card debt from Constance, a boat he doesn't want, an arrest record, a watered Corvette, and a job as a car salesman. Did he deserve these consequences? What did Cecilia learn about herself from that relationship?

10. Janie says, "So I write about gruesome killings and kidnappings and have a few obsessions. It's the way I am . . . odd. Who gives a shit?" Has Janie finally come to accept herself? Do you think she will ever seek help for her "few obsessions"? Will she be able to maintain a relationship with The Man in Charge? Do you think you've accepted yourself—faults and idiosyncrasies and all?

11. Cecilia and Isabelle had an intense emotional/physical twin connection to each other. Do you believe that these types of connections exist between twins, siblings, or family members? If so, how does this happen? Did this connection enhance the story?

12. The sisters, and Henry, all suffered from their childhood. In the end, did it make them stronger? More compassionate? Or was the fallout so extreme for all of them that they'll never fully recover? How did their childhoods affect their future careers?

13. Isabelle said, "My experience has also led me to believe that men are much better at a distance, much better in our heads when we fantasize about them, and when we believe what we want to believe about them, than they are in real life. In real life, once the sheen is off, they're just . . . men, deeply flawed and exhausting." What do you think of that statement? Is she right? Do you foresee Isabelle choosing to have a relationship in the future with a man? What are some of the stumbling blocks they will have to overcome together?

14. How did Henry hold the family together? Do you agree with the author's decision to have Henry die by the end of the book? Was there any other ending that would have worked?

15. Describe the sisters' relationships to one another. Are they typical sisters? Is the Bommarito family a functioning or a nonfunctioning family? Is your family like this to some extent?

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