Connecting Through the Space Between Us
Free Press, Hardcover, 9781439157947, 274pp.
Publication Date: April 19, 2011
What matters is not the isolated entity, but the space between things, the relationship of things. The Bond.
By international bestselling author Lynne McTaggart," The Bond "is the culmination of her groundbreaking work. It offers a completely new, scientific story of life and the human experience, one that challenges the very way we conceive of ourselves and our world. "The Bond "shows that the essential impulse of all life is a "will to connect "rather than a drive to compete.
In fact, we are inescapably connected, hardwired to each other at our most elemental level from cells to whole societies. The desire to help others is so necessary that we experience it as one of our chief pleasures, as essential as eating and having sex, and we succeed and prosper only when we see ourselves as part of a greater whole. Every conflict that occurs whether between husband and wife, social or racial groups, or nations is resolved only when we can fully see and embrace the space the bond between us.
McTaggart offers detailed recommendations to help foster more holistic thinking, more cooperative relationships, and more unified social groups. Blending interviews and human stories into an absorbing narrative, she shows how:
A simple daily practice conditions the brain to enable you to become more empathetic toward others
A new way of speaking and listening can overcome polarization, helping the staunchest of enemies to become close friends
People who fire together wire together: Whenever a group works together for a common goal, the brains of all parties begin to get on the same wavelength, strengthening the bond within the group
Fairness is more powerful than unfairness: A small group of individuals committed to strong reciprocity can invade a population of self-interested individuals and create a fairer society
"The Bond "offers a breathtaking, visionary plan for a new way to live, in harmony with our true nature and with each other, and a new way to heal our relationships, our neighborhoods, and our world.
“Once in a very great while, a book comes along that shifts our sense of reality, or extols a new way of living. Lynne McTaggart’s extraordinary new book, The Bond, does both.” — Deepak Chopra, author of Reinventing the Body, Resurrecting the Soul
"There is something on every page of this book to make you jump for joy. It's like things you've secretly suspected but figured must not be true since no one else seems to think them are suddenly proven to be true! You don't even realize how thirsty your soul has been for another way of looking at the world, until it's given you and you can't stop drinking it in. Rarely does a book so tell it like it is."— Marianne Williamson, author of A Return to Love