The latest from Ann Brashares, the New York Times bestselling author of The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, a magical story of reincarnation and a love that lasts more than a lifetime 

Daniel has spent centuries falling in love with the same girl. Life after life, crossing continents and dynasties, he and Sophia (despite her changing name and form) have been drawn together-and he remembers it all. For all the times that he and Sophia have been connected throughout history, they have also been torn painfully, fatally, apart.

But just when Sophia (now "Lucy" in the present) finally awakens to the secret of their shared past, the mysterious force that has always separated them reappears. Ultimately, they must come to understand what stands in the way of their love if they are ever to spend a lifetime together.
 

2. As we watch Lucy mature from a teenager to a young woman over the course of the novel, we also watch Daniel mature over centuries, carrying knowledge and wisdom from lifetime to lifetime. When they meet, he has centuries worth of experiences and she is still learning how to be an adult for the first time. Do you think Lucy and Daniel can find common ground in their shared lifetime, or do their differing experiences separate them too much?
3. My Name is Memory is set in present day, with flashbacks to previous eras—including North Africa in 541 B.C., Crete in 899 B.C., England in 1918 A.D., St. Louis in 1932 A.D., and Georgia in 1968 A.D. Was there one particular setting you enjoyed most? Why?
4. How do Lucy’s experiences with her older sister Dana’s mental illness affect her reaction to Daniel when he tells her about their past lives together? How much of her response do you think comes from fear? Do you think she wants to believe him?
5. One of the themes of My Name is Memory is our perspective on the value of the here-and-now and the passage of time. As someone who has lived and remembers many lifetimes, Daniel sees life as fleeting and replaceable, and it affects how he treats himself and his family members. How does this change for him over the course of the book? What causes the change? Did the book make you think about the value of the present, or the value of the long view differently?
6. Daniel insists on being called “Daniel” in each life, and he calls Lucy “Sophia,” the name she had when he first fell in love with her. Why is he so attached to using these names? What is their significance to him? What changes at the end that allows him to finally call her “Lucy”?
7. Daniel talks about human beings’ ability to recognize other people’s souls, and says, “Our souls reveal themselves in our face and body… Choose a person’s face and study it carefully…Ask yourself what you know about the person, and if you open yourself to the information, you will find you know an overwhelming amount” (p. 55). Do you think this is true? Have you ever recognized something like this in a stranger?
8. Throughout the novel, Daniel faces hardships that he believes are a direct result of his past choices. After rejecting his mother Molly’s love by committing suicide, he is reborn to an abusive mother. After Daniel angered him hundreds of years ago, his brother Joaquim chases him through lifetimes, keeping Daniel and Sophia/Lucy apart. Do you believe in this idea, which some call karma, that our actions will come back to us?
9. When Lucy looks back on her first meeting with Daniel she is filled with regret. “It must have been painful for him to realize [Sophia] was gone, replaced by a coward” (p. 196). Do you agree with Lucy’s assessment of herself that she’s a coward, or would you consider her brave? Does her level of bravery change over the course of the book? How or why?
10. Brashares writes, as Daniel thinks he’s about to lose Lucy, “If you didn’t have a choice, you had to make a choice. If you didn’t have options, you made some. You couldn’t just let the world happen to you” (p. 505). Is this something he has always believed? Is it advice he has followed? To what consequences? How has it shaped his collection of lives?
11. At the beginning of the novel, Daniel says that despite all his lives, “I’ve never had a child, and I’ve never gotten old. I don’t know why” (p. 2). Why do you think these two rites of passage, so integrally a part of the human condition, have been denied him? Do you think he will get to experience both of these things in his “ultimate” life? Is the life with Lucy the one he’s been waiting for?

This book is on these lists:

• April 2013 Indie Next List
• March 2013 Indie Next List
• February 2013 Indie Next List