The Recipe Club: A Novel about Food and Friendship (Paperback)
A Novel about Food and Friendship
Harper Paperbacks, 9780061992292, 342pp.
Publication Date: September 21, 2010
--People A novel that combines the moving story of a friendship told in letters with more than 80 delicious recipes, The Recipe Club by Andrea Israel (Taking Tea) and Nancy Garfinkel (The Wine Lover's Guide to Wine Country) is a wonderful literary banquet. A celebration of female bonding and excellent cooking--with scrumptious dishes developed by New York Times food columnist Melissa Clark--The Recipe Club will satisfy readers who previously devoured The Friday Night Knitting Club, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society, and The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.
Praise For The Recipe Club: A Novel about Food and Friendship…
“Told through letters and recipes, this novel traces the pair’s loving, competitive friendship from 1963, when the girls first meet, to the present. A look at the difficulties of sustaining childhood bonds, it’s also a satisfying meditation on how nourishment for the body can replenish the soul.”
Conversation Starters from ReadingGroupChoices.com
- Much of The Recipe Club is written in a series of letters and emails. Why do you think the authors chose this format to tell their story?
- Contrast Lilly and Val. What elements made them friends? What did they admire in each other? What didn't they like? How did their perceptions of themselves and each other influence the choices they made? Were you drawn to one woman more than the other?
- What did The Recipe Club mean to Lilly and Val? What might their lives have been like without it?
- Discuss the girls' parents and their home life growing up. What were the girls' relationships like with their parents? How did the parents' behavior influence their bond?
- As an adult, Val claims that her friendship with Lilly "has made me who I am." Does friendship truly have the power to shape us—and change us? How did their Val and Lilly's friendship make then who they were?
- How much loyalty do we owe friends? How much do we owe it to ourselves to be true to what we want, even if it causes pain to those we love? How do these questions affect Lilly and Val's relationship?
- Is it realistic to maintain a life-long friendship? What must friends do to keep a commitment strong as lives change and years pass?
- Do you think Val betrayed Lilly all those years ago—or did she truly have her friend's best interest at heart? Argue the question from both sides.
- Once they became estranged, why was it so difficult for either Val or Lilly to reach out to the other for reconciliation? When Val finally gets in touch with Lilly, she tells her, "The only way I can make sense of what happened between us is to believe that perhaps we needed that terrible fight." Do you agree with her assessment? Do some relationships need a break to make them stronger?
- Val admits to Lilly that she was jealous of the way she lived her life. "You always knew exactly what you wanted, and went after whatever it was. You breezed so easily past all cultural norms, as if they simply didn't matter, while all I ever wanted was a feeling of fitting in, of belonging." Do you think Val is accurate in her perceptions? As children, which one do you think was the outsider—and which fit in?
- Along with friendship, food is central to the novel. Many people have emotional bonds with food. How are these bond fostered and what can they mean for our lives? What role does food play in your life? Do you have any special meals that remind you of particular events in your life? What were some of Val and Lilly's favorites?
- Val tells Lilly that she has a song she sings for every meal she makes. What songs would you choose for your favorite foods?
- Were you surprised by Isaac's revelation at the end? How did this news change Lilly and Val's perception of each other and their relationship? How might their relationship have been different if they'd known the truth earlier?
- Did you try any of the recipes from the book? Do you have a new favorite? Have you ever swapped recipes with a friend? What is the significance of sharing recipes between friends, family, neighbors?
- What does friendship mean to you? Is there a good friend you have now—or someone you've lost touch with that you wish you could connect with again? Share some stories with your group.