Talking Across the Divide (Paperback)
How to Communicate with People You Disagree with and Maybe Even Change the World
Tarcherperigee, 9780143132707, 272pp.
Publication Date: August 14, 2018
A guide to learning how to communicate with people who have diametrically opposed opinions from you, how to empathize with them, and how to (possibly) change their minds America is more polarized than ever. Whether the issue is Donald Trump, healthcare, abortion, gun control, breastfeeding, or even DC vs Marvel, it feels like you can't voice an opinion without ruffling someone's feathers. In today's digital age, it's easier than ever to build walls around yourself. You fill up your Twitter feed with voices that are angry about the same issues and believe as you believe. Before long, you're isolated in your own personalized echo chamber. And if you ever encounter someone outside of your bubble, you don't understand how the arguments that resonate so well with your peers can't get through to anyone else. In a time when every conversation quickly becomes a battlefield, it's up to us to learn how to talk to each other again. In Talking Across the Divide, social justice activist Justin Lee explains how to break through the five key barriers that make people resist differing opinions. With a combination of psychological research, pop-culture references, and anecdotes from Justin's many years of experience mediating contentious conversations, this book will help you understand people on the other side of the argument and give you the tools you need to change their minds--even if they've fallen for "fake news.
About the Author
Justin Lee is a social justice activist known for building bridges between conservatives and progressives, particularly in the areas of faith and sexuality. He is the founder of The Gay Christian Network (GCN), a 16-year-old nonprofit that has become the standard bearer in LGBT-Christian dialogue. Justin's first book, Torn: Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs.-Christians Debate, was a hit in evangelical circles and was formally endorsed by the Archbishop of Canterbury; it has been widely cited for its role in moving Christians to greater LGBT acceptance.