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Red Hook Road

Ayelet Waldman


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Other Editions of This Title:
Digital Audiobook (7/12/2010)
Hardcover, Large Print, Large Print (1/1/2011)
Paperback (5/31/2011)
Compact Disc (7/13/2010)

July 2010 Indie Next List

“Ayelet Waldman is one of those very rare authors who gets better with each book that she writes. Covering four summers in the lives of two families united by tragedy, Red Hook Road is a challenging book to read, but a rewarding book to have read.”
— Martin Sorensen, Green Apple Books, San Francisco, CA
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As lyrical as a sonata, Ayelet Waldman’s follow-up novel to Love and Other Impossible Pursuits explores the aftermath of a family tragedy.

Set on the coast of Maine over the course of four summers, Red Hook Road tells the story of two families, the Tetherlys and the Copakens, and of the ways in which their lives are unraveled and stitched together by misfortune, by good intentions and failure, and by love and calamity.

A marriage collapses under the strain of a daughter’s death; two bereaved siblings find comfort in one another; and an adopted young girl breathes new life into her family with her prodigious talent for the violin. As she writes with obvious affection for these unforgettable characters, Ayelet Waldman skillfully interweaves life’s finer pleasures—music and literature—with the more mundane joys of living. Within these resonant pages, a vase filled with wildflowers or a cold beer on a hot summer day serve as constant reminders that it’s often the little things that make life so precious.

Praise For Red Hook Road


"A thoroughly gripping and elegantly written story about love, grief, friendship, and the unexpected ways in which disaster brings families together.  The novel is chockfull of revelations and insights on how people both unravel and manage to find grace under strain."
Khaled Hosseini, author of The Kite Runner

"This beautiful novel shows us how families cope with the most painful kinds of loss and reminds us that even as grief fractures, it can pave the way for unexpected grace."
Ann Packer, author of The Dive from Clausen’s Pier

"Every day, families are shoved into new realities. Red Hook Road is a masterful imagining of the way a single tragic event impacts the psyches and behaviors and dynamics of two families. Waldman's writing is elegant and riveting."
Kelly Corrigan, author of The Middle Place

"You won't be able to tear yourself away from Waldman's powerful evocation of grief."
Real Simple

"This engagingly complex examination of two close families is a leap ahead for the essayist and author."
O, The Oprah Magazine 

 "[A] lyrical tale of love and loss... Waldman's startling premise--a newly married couple dies in an automobile accident en route to their reception--sets the scene for this searing, soul-searching examination of human emotions and reactions."

"Readers who enjoy family sagas will find this book a pleasure."
Library Journal

"A literary puzzle with rich intellectual and emotional rewards... Red Hook Road proves life and art are worth it."

Doubleday, 9780385517867, 352pp.

Publication Date: July 13, 2010

About the Author

AYELET WALDMAN is the author of "Daughter's Keeper," "Love and Other Impossible Pursuits," and the "New York Times" bestseller "Bad Mother." Her writing has appeared in the "New York Times," "New York," "Elle," "Vogue," and other publications, and on She and her husband, the novelist Michael Chabon, live in Berkeley, California, with their four children.

Conversation Starters from

Red Hook Road hinges upon an almost unimaginable and unfathomable tragedy. Was it easy or difficult for you to accept the book’s premise? 

Think about this statement by Mary Lou, the librarian at the Red Hook Library: “Half the relationships I know are really support groups in disguise.” How does Mary Lou’s assessment apply to the relationships in Red Hook Road?  

Talk about Iris and Jane. Are they similar to one another in any way? What was at the root of Jane’s intense dislike of Iris? 

During Iris’s visit, Connie says, “Most of us could use an asylum sometimes. A refuge from the world,” (page 239). Talk about all the different forms of sanctuary taken by key characters. Do these “escapes” help anyone deal with their grief?  

What is your definition of “family?” Does marriage play a part in forming familial bonds, or is family created purely through blood connections? What does family mean to different characters in Red Hook Road?  

During “The Second Summer,” Ruthie wants to turn the family’s traditional Fourth of July party into a celebration of the lives of Becca and John. What did you think of Ruthie’s idea? Can you understand why Iris rejected it? 

Think about the comfort that people take in following traditions; can rituals help people, like the Copakens and Tetherlys, move forward after a setback, or even a tragedy? Did having the party each summer after Becca and John’s deaths ultimately help or hurt Ruthie? 

Discuss Iris’s father, Mr. Kimmelbrod, particularly the hardships he endured as a young man. In “The Second Summer,” Kimmelbrod reproaches himself for not offering Iris more comfort after the unveiling at the cemetery. Do you think that experiencing great sadness automatically equips a person to console others? 

Mary Lou the librarian offers this piece of advice as Ruthie considers whether to return to Oxford: “Nothing one does in one’s twenties, short of having a child, is irrevocable,” (page 196). Was this advice something Ruthie wanted to hear, needed to hear, or both? Do you agree with Mary Lou’s sentiment? 

Consider Samantha’s role in Iris’s life. Would Iris have felt the same way toward Samantha had Becca not died? Was Samantha a representation of the daughter that Iris lost, or the daughter Iris never was herself? 

Did you guess that Iris would circumvent Jane and approach Connie with the idea of moving Samantha to New York City to pursue her musical studies? Had you been in Iris’s position, would you have done the same thing? 

Reread the book’s Prelude and Coda, which describe parts of John and Becca’s wedding before they get into the limousine. What was the author’s intent in opening and closing the novel in this way, do you think? Did this device enhance your reading of Red Hook Road

Were you surprised when Daniel left Iris? Given the depths of their sadness and the state of their marriage at the time Daniel moves out, did you expect Iris would have been less shocked than she was? 

Talk about Iris’s decision to list Becca by her maiden name on the grave marker, despite Becca’s decision to change her last name to Tetherly after she and John married. What does this decision say about Iris, and her relationship with her late daughter? Do you agree with what she did?  

Throughout the book we learn about Becca and John through flashbacks and remembrances by some of the book’s characters. Would you have preferred to learn about them first-hand, in real time? 

What does music represent in Red Hook Road? Is it a source of joy or sorrow? A way to hide, or a means of expression? 

Did you identify with any of the characters? Which one(s), and why? Do you feel it was necessary to have experienced tragedy in order to appreciate what each of the characters in Red Hook Road goes through as they deal with their losses?