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Gone So Long

A Novel

III Dubus, Andre


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Compact Disc (10/2/2018)
Paperback (10/1/2019)
Library Binding, Large Print (10/3/2018)

Winter 2019 Reading Group Indie Next List

“Precision of language, artistry of plot. The author plays no favorites with the three main characters (Daniel, who killed his former wife, Linda, in a fit of rage; Susan, who witnessed the homicide decades earlier; and Lois, Linda’s mother, who raised Susan). Each character and storyline is fully developed, giving the reader a great sense of how and why they are who they are. I felt empathy for each of them (yes, even a man who killed his wife!) and read the book on the edge of my seat!”
— Dawn Rennert, The Concord Bookshop, Concord, MA
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Andre Dubus III’s first novel in a decade is a masterpiece of thrilling tension and heartrending empathy.

Few writers can enter their characters so completely or evoke their lives as viscerally as Andre Dubus III. In this deeply compelling new novel, a father, estranged for the worst of reasons, is driven to seek out the daughter he has not seen in decades.

Daniel Ahearn lives a quiet, solitary existence in a seaside New England town. Forty years ago, following a shocking act of impulsive violence on his part, his daughter, Susan, was ripped from his arms by police. Now in her forties, Susan still suffers from the trauma of a night she doesn’t remember, as she struggles to feel settled, to love a man and create something that lasts. Lois, her maternal grandmother who raised her, tries to find peace in her antique shop in a quaint Florida town but cannot escape her own anger, bitterness, and fear.

Cathartic, affirming, and steeped in the empathy and precise observations of character for which Dubus is celebrated, Gone So Long explores how the wounds of the past afflict the people we become, and probes the limits of recovery and absolution.

Praise For Gone So Long: A Novel

Gone So Long is an astonishment. I love this book so much, the humanity in it. I love every single person in it, they are so real, these people—I know them and love them all. I wept for them, I did. Dubus is just so good and real and true, he doesn’t pull one sentimental punch the whole time—extraordinary. I thought about those people as I was walking down the sidewalk, and they are inside me as well, not just thoughts that go by. I love this book to pieces.

— Elizabeth Strout, Pulitzer Prize–winning author of Olive Kitteridge

I tore through this haunting novel about people driven by pain beyond the reach of love and forgiveness, and the roads they use as they seek their way back. It hits just the right note at the end, and I’ll be thinking about Susan a long time. A hell of a read.
— Phil Klay, National Book Award–winning author of Redeployment

Well, he’s done it again, hasn't he? What a gorgeous heartbreaker of a book. Dubus’s compassion is unsentimental and unblinking, total and unwavering. That and sheer artistry makes Gone So Long dark and radiant, beautiful and never to be forgotten.

— Paul Harding, Pulitzer Prize–winning author of Tinkers

Rings with authenticity and evokes the texture of working-class lives. . . . This is a compassionate and wonderful novel.
— Publishers Weekly (starred)

A dark and exquisitely crafted novel that views parental relationships as both a form of inherited violence and redemptive empathy. 
— Library Journal (starred)

Dubus is in his gritty wheelhouse, exploring the
question of how we live with our mistakes and whether we can ever stop adding
to them.
— Kirkus Reviews

Dubus evokes a dazzling
palette of emotions as he skillfully unpacks the psychological tensions between
remorse and guilt, fear and forgiveness, anger and love. Susan, Daniel, and
Lois are fully realized and authentic characters who live with pain and
heartache while struggling to fill the tremendous void created by the tragedy.
Heartrending yet unsentimental, this powerful testament to the human spirit
asks what it means to atone for the unforgivable and to empathize with the
— Booklist

W. W. Norton & Company, 9780393244106, 480pp.

Publication Date: October 2, 2018

About the Author

Andre Dubus III is the author of Gone So Long, Dirty Love, The Garden of Last Days, House of Sand and Fog (a #1 New York Times bestseller, Oprah’s Book Club pick, and finalist for the National Book Award), and Townie, winner of an American Academy of Arts and Letters Award in Literature. His writing has received many honors, including a Guggenheim Fellowship, a National Magazine Award, and two Pushcart Prizes. He lives with his family north of Boston.

Conversation Starters from

1. Susan, Danny, and Lois each narrate sections of the story from their own point of view. What effect is created by the multiple viewpoints? Are there any places where you find the switch among narrators to be particularly illuminating or moving?

2. Throughout much of the book, and especially in the first half, Susan and Danny craft narratives of their experiences. What similarities do you see in Susan’s and Danny’s efforts to write their stories? What differences?

3. What motivates Danny to return to his childhood hometown after being released from prison?

4. In Danny’s letter to Susan, he creates two comic book–type characters to represent different aspects of himself: The Reactor and Captain Suspicion. Why? Do you agree with Susan’s response to these characters later in the book, when she finally receives his letter?

5. Lois decides to wait until Susan is a young adult before relating what happened to her mother. What do you make of this decision in light of Lois’s sense that, even before Susan learns the truth, she is in some way marked by the violence she can subconsciously remember?

6. What drew Linda to Danny when they were teenagers? Do you see similar tendencies in Susan, or are her romantic choices essentially different from Linda’s?

7. Do you sympathize with Danny at any point in the book? Does the narrative encourage this reaction? If you do sympathize with him, are you comfortable with this feeling?

8. In the final third of the book, Lois forbids Susan to see her father, and then follows Susan to her home with a gun, intending to threaten or hurt Danny. Are you sympathetic with Lois’s position? To whom does Susan owe her loyalty in this moment?

9. Domestic violence and familial trauma are major themes of this book, but another is the effect of social and economic class. Are there any moments where you see class issues playing a major role in the lives of Danny, Susan, Linda, or Lois? Does socioeconomic class complicate the story of domestic violence and familial trauma?

10. Do you believe Danny should be forgiven?