Momzillas: It's a Jungle Out There on Park Avenue, Baby! (Paperback)
It's a Jungle Out There on Park Avenue, Baby!
Broadway Books, 9780767924795, 282pp.
Publication Date: April 8, 2008
The mothers on Manhattan's chic Upper East Side are highly educated, extremely wealthy, and very competitive. They throw themselves and all of their energy and resources into full-time child rearing, turning their kids into the unwitting pawns in a game where success is measured in precocious achievements, jam-packed schedules, and elite private-school pedigrees. Hannah Allen has recently moved to the neighborhood with her New York City-bred investment banker husband and their two-year-old daughter, Violet. She's immediately inundated by an outpouring of advice from her not-so-well-intentioned new friends and her overbearing, socially conscious mother-in-law, who coach her on matters ranging from where to buy the must-have $300 baby dress to how to get into the only pre-pre-preschool that counts. Despite her better instincts and common sense, Hannah soon finds herself caught up in the competitive whirl of high-stakes mothering.
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Praise For Momzillas: It's a Jungle Out There on Park Avenue, Baby!…
Praise for The Right Address:
“It’s impossible to resist the charms of this modern Manhattan fairy tale.…What makes it all so enticing is watching those evil society stepsisters get their deliciously just deserts along the way.” —People
“Offers playful insight into a world…as catty as it is rarefied.” —Vogue
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“A gossipy, Saturday-afternoon treat.” —Glamour
“For those who crave diamonds and Manolos with their fairy tales, this confection hits the spot.” —People
Conversation Starters from ReadingGroupChoices.com
- Do you know any momzillas? Are they exclusive to the posher neighborhoods of New York City, or can they be found everywhere? What's the difference between a mom and a momzilla? Talk about the momzillas you know. What's the best way to handle them?
- Do you think the characters in the book are based on real people? Or are they caricatures? What's the most outrageous act of Momzillahood in the book?
- Despite her better instincts and common sense, Hannah soon finds herself swept up in the competitive craziness of high-stakes motherhood. Why is it so easy for mothers to fall pray to fears that they're not doing enough for their kids (are they in the right schools, are they in the right extracurricular activities, etc.)?
- Are you a mother? How many momzilla-like traps have you fallen into? For example, what's the most you've ever spent on an outfit for your toddler? What do you think of people who buy designer baby outfits and $1000 strollers? Why do you think they do this?
- In the rarified world of Manhattan's Upper East Side, what are the criteria for determining whether a woman is a "good mother"? What purpose does their competitive attitude serve? What does Hannah seem to think about the culture of American mommyhood?
- In what way are parenting styles reflections of an adult's overall outlook on life, as much as his or her concern for a child?
- Discuss Hannah's relationship with Lila, her mother-in-law. Why is this relationship—both in the novel and in real life—so fraught with tension? Is your own relationship with your in-laws a difficult one? If you had been in Hannah's shoes, how would you have responded to Lila?