The Tao of Dating (Paperback)

The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible

By Ali Binazir MD

Elite Communications LLC, 9780977984572, 284pp.

Publication Date: April 4, 2013

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The #1-Rated Dating Book on Amazon

Smart, successful women CAN have it all: a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. Intelligent women are having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale. They either can't find the right guy, are with the wrong guy, have relationships that don't last, or have given up on dating entirely. So I wrote this book to remedy the situation.

'Can you summarize the book for me in a minute?' People have asked me that cheeky question hundreds of times. So here's the 3-word summary for ya: BE THE LIGHT.

What does that mean? Well, 5,000 or so letters I've received from women readers on their dating woes can all be boiled down to this: 'Does my butt look good in these pants?'

Okay, what they're really asking is 'Am I enough?' Answer: Wrong question Focus on this question instead: 'How can I make the people around me feel like a million bucks?'

How to Generate the Love You Want Instead of Waiting for It to Happen

At any point in life, you have the option to elevate those around you -- with a look, a touch, a phrase of praise, genuine appreciation. 'Hey, love what you've done with that outfit.' 'Thanks for the fabulous meal ' When you appreciate and elevate others, they light up. And because we're hypersocial, empathic beings equipped with mirror neurons, YOU light up, and everyone notices: 'Who is that glow-in-the-dark girl? I want to be around her '

Now, you're lonely no more And instead of coming from a place of lack or need, you're coming from abundance, joy, and choice. A much stronger starting point for any relationship.

Butts and fashions change. The power to elevate, on the other hand, is power that cannot be taken away from you. The Tao of Dating is your manual for learning how to be the light and come into your authentic power.

This is not your grandma's dating guide. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. And nowadays, lots of guys are less educated and affluent than you. What to do? I give you tips on how to handle all that like:

  • The dilemma of the career-oriented woman

  • How to embrace your inner goddess

  • Why men are so damn horny

  • The perfect guy vs. the perfect guy for you

  • Why good women get involved (and stay) in bad relationships

  • How to spot bad boys

  • How to love your body now

  • Thirteen places to meet great men

  • Why long-distance relationships suck

  • Internet dating: perils and opportunities

  • Meeting men: should you initiate or not?

  • Fail-safe ways to make men approach you

  • Rejection-Proofing yourself

  • How to be irresistible

  • The Three-Man plan

  • 3 ways to make a man fall in love with you

  • What drives men away

  • The right time to have sex with a man

  • How to keep a man worth keeping

Ancient Wisdom + Modern Science = Lasting Love & Happiness for You

The Tao of Dating is a heart-centered, science-based, practical guide to finding fulfillment in your love life. I give you small, easy steps that put the fun back into dating, plus the science and reasoning behind it.

Do You Deserve to Be Happy? Hell Yeah

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About the Author

Hi there! Dr Ali Binazir here, and I'm thrilled you're paying a visit. Relevant credentials: --I've got a bachelor's degree from Harvard College. This means I can put two thoughts together and express them in a way you understand. More important, I also know how smart people (i.e. you) think and behave since I've been around a lot of them. -- I have an M.D. from the University of California San Diego School of Medicine. This is where I learned how to diagnose and treat problems, including those relating to the human mind. -- I have an M.Phil. from Cambridge University and was also a former consultant at McKinsey & Company. That's more training on how to diagnose & fix problems. -- I'm a certified clinical hypnotherapist. This means after figuring out what someone's doing wrong, I have tools to actually change their behavior. Much more important than all of that: I've been on hundreds (hundreds!) of dates. And I've had thousands (thousands!) of men write to me for the past six years, telling me what turns them on (and off) about women. Translation: I know how guys think and what they like. And in clear, practical terms, I can teach how you can be the thing they like -- even love. I'm committed to helping you become the most deliriously happy and fulfilled version of you, and am glad to be of service. Some topics of interest that I cover in The Tao of Dating *The dilemma of the career-oriented woman*How to embrace your inner goddess *Why men are so damn horny *Why you need to kill the prince *The perfect guy vs. the perfect guy for you *The big secret about how men relate to female beauty *Your secret gift as a woman *Why good women get involved (and stay) in bad relationships *How to spot bad boys *How to love your body now *Thirteen places to meet great men*Why long-distance relationships suck *Internet dating: perils and opportunities*Meeting men: should you initiate or not?*Fail-safe ways to make men approach you *The Three-Man plan*Rejection-Proofing yourself *Use your Unfair Advantage*The Magic Question *How to be irresistible *The Passion Formula*3 ways to make a man fall in love with you*What drives men away*Getting the second date*The right time to have sex with a man*How to keep a man worth keeping