If It Hurts, It Isn't Love (Paperback)

And 365 Other Principles to Heal and Transform Your Relationships

By Chuck Spezzano, PhD, Robert Holden (Foreword by)

Da Capo Lifelong Books, 9781569246344, 416pp.

Publication Date: March 27, 2000

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In If It Hurts, It Isn't Love, author Chuck Spezzano finds truth in simple insights: What I think I need is what I am called to give. Depression is the fear that something new will leave me. When someone gets angry at me, there is a lesson for me to learn. Jealousy is a birthing place. These principles show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, in a way that heals pain and brings love and forgiveness. After each principle, the author gives brief exercises that nudge readers further, prompting them to absorb the insights even more deeply.