She Writes Press, 9781631529214, 352pp.
Publication Date: April 21, 2015
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This is a novel about friendship among women. Is this also a novel about being friends to ourselves? If so, how?
What role does Stella’s garden play in the novel? What about The Rose Whisperer?
The dock by the lake is the setting for some important scenes. Why does the dock become the cover art and not a garden picture or an image of roses, which are also important to the story?
How are men and male relationships portrayed in this novel?
What does this novel say about mothers and motherhood?
The author has said that best friends “say yes,” that they step up in times of need. Do you agree? Would you have said yes to Stella Rose?
What role do the letters play in this novel? How would the novel be different without them?
What is the importance of names to the main characters?
Abby is surprised that Stella Rose has secrets. Were you? Do you think most people have secrets? Olivia has secrets as well but hers seem less surprising. Why?
Different kinds of love are depicted in this story. Is one more powerful than another? What does love make people do, or not do?
Part of this novel is about physical violence and gun violence. What do the characters learn about themselves as a result of these crises?
Abby overcomes several obstacles personally and professionally in the year in which she becomes a mother. Do you think she will continue to challenge herself? What do you think the future holds for her? Will she always be one of Olivia’s mothers?
Could Abby have become her whole self without the passing of Stella Rose, or without late-in-the-novel conversation with her own mother?
What did you come away with, after reading this novel?