Wishful Thinking (Paperback)

By Kamy Wicoff

She Writes Press, 9781631529764, 370pp.

Publication Date: April 21, 2015

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Jennifer Sharpe is a divorced mother of two with a problem just about any working parent can relate to: her boss expects her to work as though she doesn t have children, and her children want her to care for them as though she doesn t have a boss. But when, through a fateful coincidence, a brilliant physicist comes into possession of Jennifer's phone and decides to play fairy godmother, installing a miraculous time-travel app called Wishful Thinking, Jennifer suddenly finds herself in possession of what seems like the answer to the impossible dream of having it all: an app that lets her be in more than one place at the same time. With the app, Jennifer goes quickly from zero to hero in every part of her life: she is super-worker, the last to leave her office every night; she is super-mom, the first to arrive at pickup every afternoon; and she even becomes super-girlfriend, dating a musician who thinks she has unlimited childcare and a flexible job. But Jennifer soon finds herself facing questions that adding more hours to her day can t answer. Why does she feel busier and more harried than ever? Is she aging faster than everyone around her? How can she be a good worker, mother, and partner when she can t be honest with anybody in her life? And most important, when choosing to be with your children, at work, or with your partner doesn t involve sacrifice, do those choices lose their meaning? Wishful Thinking is a modern-day fairy tale in which one woman learns to overcome the challenges and appreciate the joys of living life in real time.


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  1. At the beginning of the book, Jennifer says that when she was a girl, she dreamed of being two people when she grew up: a stay-at-home mom and the president of the United States. Now that she is grown up and trying to balance her life as a working mother, she feels the need to be multiple people more than ever. How much pressure do you think Jennifer is putting on herself, and how much pressure is she getting from the outside world?generic viagra price canada
  2. When Jennifer realizes she has lost her phone, a deep dread and prickling panic overtake her (later she discovers there is a word for the fear of being separated from your phone: nomophobia), but a part of her feels liberated from her “digital ball and chain.” How do you think these dueling feelings play out over the course of the book, and what do you think the author is saying about the way people use smartphones in modern life?generic viagra price canada
  3. Early in the book, Jennifer relates that her new boss, Bill Truitt, came to city government on a mission to impose what he calls a “private-sector work ethic” on her department, including longer hours and more emphasis on in-office “face time.” To Jennifer, this means not only making the fact that she is a single mother all but invisible when she is at work, it means being expected to work as though she has a wife—“the kind of wife even husbands don’t have anymore.” How does Bill’s notion of the “ideal worker” impact Jennifer and Alicia? Tim? How would it affect a man working for Bill who had children and a wife who also worked?generic viagra price canada
  4. On page 27, Jennifer composes a “somewhere there is a woman” e-mail to her best friend Vinita. The theme of these e-mails and texts between the two friends is the mythical woman who has, and does, it all, whose perfect life (as advertised on Facebook) haunts them. Where do you think Jennifer and Vinita get their standards for what makes a “successful” woman? How do those standards affect the way they evaluate their own lives?generic viagra price canada
  5. 5. When Jennifer opens the app, she sees the tagline An App for Women Who Need to Be in More Than One Place at the Same Time, and describes it as the most alluring tagline she has ever seen in her life. Not believing the app is real, she books an appointment to go to her older son Julien’s guitar recital, something she was otherwise going to miss. What would your first Wishful Thinking appointment be? How many times could you have used the app in the last twenty-four hours?generic viagra price canada
  6. Jennifer’s ex-husband, Norman, all but abandoned her and their two boys in the years immediately following their divorce. Now he is back and asking for 50 percent custody, a request that outrages Jennifer. In what ways do you think Jennifer is right in her response to Norman’s request? In what ways is she wrong?generic viagra price canada
  7. Why do you think Dr. Sexton decides to give Jennifer the app?generic viagra price canada
  8. Sexton explains to Jennifer that the app operates by creating a wormhole. Did you feel the science behind the app was compelling/believable? How did you feel the science either enriched or detracted from the story?generic viagra price canada
  9. Jennifer is thrilled to pick her boys up from school, but by six o’clock, cleaning her apartment is more appealing than continuing to play with them. Jennifer is aware of this paradox: sometimes the idea of being with her children is better than the actual experience of it. If you are a parent, have you ever felt this? If not, have you observed a similar paradox in other parts of your life?generic viagra price canada
  10. How does Norman’s falling in love with someone else affect Jennifer? Are Jennifer’s children the emotional center of her life? How does that affect her and her boys?generic viagra price canada
  11. In Chapter 13, Dr. Sexton relates her story to Jennifer, including the reason she is no longer affiliated with a university—a professor at the university she left suggested that women were unable to compete with male scientists because their interest in childbearing during the years physicists typically peak (early twenties) was a hindrance to them. This incident is fictional, but in 2005, then-Harvard president Lawrence Summers suggested that there were fewer women in science because a) fewer women were willing to put in eighty-hour workweeks; and b) there are innate differences between women and men that affect scientific ability. How do you think other characters in the book—Bill, Vinita, Susan, and Jennifer—would react to these kinds of arguments?generic viagra price canada
  12. Jennifer and Vinita have been best friends since college. But in recent years, Vinita’s marriage to a wealthy investment banker, in stark contrast to Jennifer’s marriage to a struggling actor, has created a gap between them that neither has ever explicitly talked about. At Jennifer’s surprise party, however, when Vinita angrily confronts Jennifer about her use of the app, it comes out: Jennifer doesn’t feel Vinita’s experiences with “juggling” work and family can be compared with her own because Vinita has so much money, and so much help. Is this fair?generic viagra price canada
  13. When Alicia discovers Jennifer is using the app, Jennifer tries to excuse her behavior partly by suggesting the app could help the women in the public-housing projects they serve—a suggestion that outrages Alicia. “[Your idea is] to throw a bunch of poor women through a wormhole every day so they can take care of their children and collect their welfare checks at the same time? Time travel is easier than passing affordable child care?” Upon hearing this, Jennifer, stung, reflects that she has always hated the “every-person-for-herself” attitude that isolates and blames so many of the public-housing residents she works with, and yet she has just suggested that in order to address the multiplying burdens they face, single mothers should multiply themselves. When the demands placed on you, at work or at home, seem too much, is your first instinct to blame yourself? Or to challenge the system that produces those demands?generic viagra price canada
  14. When Jennifer is contemplating the effect the app has had on her life, she asks herself: when you can do anything all the time, what does anything you do mean anymore? To what extent do the choices people make about work, life, and love, and how much time to invest in them, have meaning because choosing one thing inevitably means sacrificing something else? Are Jennifer, Alicia, Vinita, and Dr. Sexton equally free to “choose” between career and nurturing relationships, for example, or is the degree of choice each woman has dependent upon her circumstances?generic viagra price canada
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